in order to find the marriage and ancestors of Gerrigje Heemels it would help if you had provided further information on their children (e.g. place & date their baptism). For the death record of Hendrik Waander please see [here], he allegedly was age 92 when he died.
In the transcript of the 1811 census of Raalte [here, page 38] he is referred to as "Waanink", mason, age 81 with parents H.Waanders & Maria Kremers
I assume these could be the catholic baptism records of the children:
02.07.1769 Hermanus. Henricus Waanders & m: Gerardina Gerardi. gp: Hermina sorore patris, pro qua suscepit mater matris
17.05.1771 Zuana. Henricus Waanders & Gerardina Gerardi. gp: Phenenna sorore matris
27.12.1773 Gerardina. Henricus Waanders & Gerardina Gerardi. gp: Christina affine matris
17.01.1776 Maria. Henricus Waanders & m: Gerritje Gerardi Heemersman. gp: Hermina sorore patris
23.05.1778 Gerardus Henricus Wanders & Gerardina Gerardus. gp: Susanna Gerardus
the marriage between Hendrik Waanders & Gerrigien Heems took place in Zwolle on 15.05.1768 [here]. The record does not mention where the originated from.
with the parents mentioned in the census I could only find a death record of an Euphemia (Fenne) Waanders in 1820 in Haaksbergen [here]